My name is Tone R. Haldorsen

I am a certified sexologist, couples therapist and vaginal therapist, with several specializations. I run my own therapy practice, where I have conversations with couples, families and individuals, and travel around giving lectures and courses. Ever since my first job, I’ve been working with people, and when my dream of becoming a sexologist came true, I was finally able to do what I like best – helping people and spreading information.

The Northern Lights on the cover image represent the changes that can be created when the conditions are right, and how varied, changing and brilliant life can be. In this space, you are at the center and you are the expert in your own life. With me, you’ll find a safe place to talk about what you need, under safe guidance and talk therapy. Welcome!

I am a certified sexologist, couples therapist and vaginal therapist, with several specializations. I run my own therapy practice, where I have conversations with couples, families and individuals, and travel around giving lectures and courses. The Northern Lights represent the changes that can be created when the conditions are right, and how varied, changing and brilliant life can be. In this space, you are at the center and you are the expert in your own life. With me, you’ll find a safe place to talk about what you need, under safe guidance and talk therapy. Welcome!

I offer

Individual therapy

Conversation therapy
Individual therapy/conversation therapy puts you in focus and makes room for everything you need to talk about.

Couples therapy

Focus on the relationship
Give yourselves and your relationship the opportunity to grow and develop in a safe environment.

Family therapy

Family in focus
Conflicts between siblings, parents and children or other relationships? Family therapy is for those who want a more harmonious way forward

Sexological counseling

Get to know yourself
Sexological counseling is talk therapy where you get guidance on everything about the body, sex, sexuality, pain, relationships, etc.

From couple to parents

A new life
Guidance for those who are expecting a child, or who are already parents, to create a better balance between you as parents and lovers.

Vaginal therapy

When the abdomen says no
Many people struggle with abdominal pain, and vaginal therapy is a form of therapy with a long tradition that has helped many

Lectures

A world of knowledge
As an experienced lecturer, I can contribute in many areas, and lectures/courses are tailored to your/their needs. Get in touch with me!

Instruction

Knowledge is power
I provide sexuality education for all grades in primary and lower secondary schools, as well as for public health nurses, teachers, parents and kindergarten staff.

Recommendations

“I love you! I want you to come to our school and have wanted to for years. Sex education at school was at least ridiculous when I had it – hopelessly old-fashioned and embarrassing in all the wrong ways. Desolate and sad. Nowadays, children, even young children, have seen TOO MUCH. Heard everything, seen everything. Everyone carries a computer in their pocket, nothing is censored and sex is one of the things children are most curious about – at all ages. As you are now proving. I’m rooting for you – thanks for existing!”

Anneli Mjøen , Trauma therapist, author and yoga instructor

“Thank you so much for a pretty tough hour. I really feel that you see us both from our own point of view. I have great faith that you can help us communicate better so that eventually we can both feel seen and free. You’re a fantastic therapist and you seem so confident!”

Elsebeth, 54 years, client

“I booked an appointment with Tone because I experienced pain during sex. The gynecologist couldn’t find anything wrong and said she couldn’t help me. After a few conversations with Tone, I was given some exercises I could do at home, in addition to finding out why the pain was occurring. Now I can have sex without it hurting, and seeing a sexologist wasn’t as scary as I had thought. Tone feels safe to talk to, and she was never shocked no matter what came up during the conversations.”

Silje, 28 years old, client

“I’ve struggled with premature ejaculation for many years and never figured out why. I found Tone via Instagram, and read what she had written on one of the pictures there about a similar problem to mine. I never thought that talking to someone could solve the problem, but it did! I didn’t know that past experiences could affect things like erections and orgasms, but I learned something new. She’s comfortable to talk to and it’s easy to open up about things that are usually embarrassing to talk about. Definitely worth it!”

Erik, 45 years old, client

“I’ll say one thing Tone, you’re an incredibly easy person to talk to. And things are simply not embarrassing to talk about. You do what you’re passionate about and people need that. “

Morten, 42 years old, client

“I really like the way you address the topic of sex in different settings. Live about infidelity was fantastic!!! I absorb your expertise, your angles – thank you!!!”

Tone Eide, Family therapist

“I’m so happy with the conversation I had with Tone! I got so much out of it – both material for the blog, but also good guidance as a private person.”

Ida Salbetg, Blogger

“Very important things you bring up! Fascinating that you have so much wisdom despite being so young!”

Elisabeth Tanev , Course holder Parental guidance

“Tone is the most skilled sexologist I know when it comes to knowledge, information, statistics and research in the sexological field. She has an enormous amount of knowledge, and is in my eyes a sexological expert! The things she fights for and works with, such as sex education in schools, women’s sexuality and the LGBT+/LHBT+ community, are admirable. She meets all issues and questions professionally, and I can recommend all schools, from primary school to university, to book Tone as a teacher/speaker. In short: Tone is a serious, professional, knowledgeable, inspiring, strong and wonderfully skilled sexologist.”

Susanne Eidem, Sexologist and couples therapist at Datingportalen

Media matters

I’m frequently used as a professional in the media, and appear in newspapers, magazines, radio, TV and more. I have stopped including links to specific media cases, as I have so far been in over 600 articles and interviews with many different media houses, which you can see an overview of in the pictures here. I have a weekly column at ABC news, where I answer questions from readers. Feel free to contact us by email for inquiries.

Media matters

I’m frequently used as a professional in the media, and appear in newspapers, magazines, radio, TV and more. I have stopped including links to specific media cases, as I have so far been in over 600 articles and interviews with many different media houses, which you can see an overview of in the pictures here. I have a weekly column at ABC news, where I answer questions from readers. Feel free to contact us by email for inquiries.

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